Neutraal of afgestoten? Aantrekking groeit vanuit neutraal, bijna nooit vanuit afkeer. De drie-tot-vijf-dates-regel, twee ijkpunten en een eerlijk einde.
There is no fixed timeline, but there is a distinction that decides the answer: neutral versus repelled. If nothing about the person puts you off and nothing has landed yet, attraction can grow, and three to five more dates is a fair amount of time to give it. If something specific actively puts you off, more time almost never changes that, and waiting mostly costs you both. Two checkpoints tell you which way it is going: do you look forward to seeing them, and is there any physical pull at all, however small. If both are still no after five dates, stop. What speeds attraction up is not time itself but the order information arrives in: people who report attraction growing almost always knew the person before they were judging them as a date.
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